Too outspoken for your own good eh?

6 p.m

So you're the type who are too outspoken for your own good? Maybe once a while you should try to hold your tongue instead of being too outspoken and hurt somebody else feeling, especially those who matter to you. ESPECIALLY TO THOSE WHO MATTER. Because we kinda have that tendency to hurt the feeling of people we love and care about by speaking our mind and not considering their feeling. 

Kenapa ya, senang sangat nak naik darah or marah-marah dengan orang yang kita sayang and close dengan kita? Sebab bila kita marah macam mana pun, mereka tak kan tinggal kan kita dan mereka, dapat accept kita just the way we are (tiba-tiba nak nyanyi lagu Just The Way You Are - Bruno Mars. Hehe). Eh ye ke macam tu? Betul lah, if mereka tak dapat terima kita seadanya, dah lama mereka lari dari kali pertama lagi kita hurt their feeling. But that doesn't mean you can take advantage on them dengan mengabaikan feelings mereka. Apa sangat lah yang kita ada sampai diorang nak stay and tahan dengan our words and our actions yang at times can be really selfish and hurtful (and the best part is, korang sendiri taw perbuatan tu hurt their feeling tapi saja buat-buat tak taw), unless korang neh anak orang kaya yang banyak duit and asyik support member.

Yeah in time they will forgive you but somehow, the damage is already done and the cut can become a scar. Just pray that the wound from your word can be healed in a short time and bear NO SCAR. Next time when you are about to say something stupid and create a spark of arguement..shut up and hang up. That's better than saying anything stupid and regretting them later.

Ingat tu ya? Just bit your tongue and most importantly SHUT UP. You'll be thankful later. It's better sakit hati at that time, rather than hurting other people's feeling because in the end, you can choose, nak walkaway sebab tak tahan dengan mereka ataupun nak mereka yang walkaway sebab tak tahan dengan kamu. If mereka yang walkaway, trust me, you'll have the deepest regret. Bukan senang taw nak cari orang yang tahan dengan sikap kita, but they did. You never ask them to stay, but they did. You never ask them to walkaway, but your attitude did that on your behalf..

So, again, bit your tongue and shut up. When you're about to say anything hurtful, imagine your life without them. Eh tak best kan? Mesti macam sunyi jer dah tak ada orang nak ajak bergaduh, ketawa, menyanyi dan apa-apa jelah aktiviti yang korang selalu buat dengan orang yang korang rapat dan sayang. Huhu. Patah tumbuh hilang berganti and kawan datang dan pergi tapi, hilang matahari tak mungkin dapat berganti dengan lampu, hatta lampu neon yang paling terang dan paling panas sekalipun. So, as a Malay saying goes, jangan kerana mulut badan binasa~ Cheers~!

p/s : i taw you tak kan baca ni, but then, i am sorry~ honestly i do.. =(